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I dispel shame around sex & relationships.

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Kinky

“Kinky” doesn’t have to involve sex –but it’s extra awesome when it does! Around here, we always kink responsibly. Here’s beginner kinks list to get you started.

Poly

“Poly” is short for “polyamorous” or “many loves”. It is consensual non-monogamy and can be amazing if you know what to watch out for.

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Books & Courses In The Works

I’m almost finished writing a book on how to be her favorite lover & I’m making a rope bondage/shibari course on how to tie up your lover.

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My Story

Job, house, car, relationship —I had it all. I did everything I was supposed to do and I was still unhappy.

My biggest fantasy was to have a threesome, but I was boring, vanilla, and ordinary. That sort of thing wasn’t allowed in the life I found myself pushed into. I was a square peg in a square hole.

One day, I asked myself, “What’s stopping me?” The answer? Shame. Guilt. Social norms. Monogamy. Religion. …but most of all, my own choices to never question any of these things. So I started doing the opposite.

Instead of doing what I was “supposed to” do, I started asking myself what I really wanted. I asked myself, “What are my kinks & how can I pursue them ethically?” The resulting life was better than I ever could have imagined.

Now I’m devoted to dispelling shame and setting as many humans free from vanilla norms as possible. Life was meant to be lived. Let me show you how to do it ethically.