Kinky People! Poly People! Stop Hiding!
Hiding our true selves is a choice based in fear. We live in a day and age where most of us don’t have to hide these things. Also, the less we all hide, the more we will become the social norm.
Hiding our true selves is a choice based in fear. We live in a day and age where most of us don’t have to hide these things. Also, the less we all hide, the more we will become the social norm.
This topic is near and dear to my heart. I grew up with an adult bully in my household. Now that I’m grown, I still keep running into adult bullies who push social norms and what various things are “supposed to” look like. Like relationship norms, gender norms, sexual norm, nudity norms, and religious norms. I want to arm more people with the tools to stand up to these bullies.
I love the 5 Love Languages! It changed my life, friendships, and relationships.
I was explaining polyamory to someone and I found myself applying the idea of “scarcity vs abundance mindsets” to “relationships”. It was a pretty surprising discovery so I made a video about it.
Here are the top 5 types of men & women to avoid open relationships with!
“Typical Monogamous Red Flags. they don’t want to hear about your other partners. They won’t introduce you to their partner. They may not be open at all. their relationship might be in trouble. Their partner might not actually be okay with this “open” thing. “Gray Area” Relationships Status. They don’t subscribe to this youtube channel. They have A LOT of “rules”.
Q. Is your relationship status “Gray Area”?
Q. are you just one of those male sluts that is after every guy’s girlfriend?
Question: With separate partners, you get all sorts of problems from favoritism and jealousy to family issues like having kids or wanting kids, how do you deal with that?
Here’s a great Question: “Would you go monogamous for commitment or would you simply not go there?”
Here’s a great question: “I strongly disbelieve this (polyamory) could ever work, unless the others you are in relationships with, also consider themselves to be partners together. Is this what you actually mean?”