Comments on: Com101 – Burbol’s Hierarchy of Happiness https://kinkypoly.com/com101-burbols-hierarchy-of-happiness/ Shame-Free Fantasy Fulfillment Thu, 06 Apr 2023 23:11:57 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.1.6 By: Com101 – Ask For What You Want – Kinky Poly https://kinkypoly.com/com101-burbols-hierarchy-of-happiness/#comment-207 Thu, 06 Apr 2023 23:11:57 +0000 https://kinkypoly.com/?p=2089#comment-207 […] needs met.  Knowing this, we can respect our own needs and the needs of others by simply scanning Burbol’s Hierarchy of Happiness.  Armed with this knowledge, we can simply identify our unmet needs and take action to get them […]

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By: Com101 – The Catch 22 of Communication – Kinky Poly https://kinkypoly.com/com101-burbols-hierarchy-of-happiness/#comment-191 Thu, 23 Mar 2023 00:36:16 +0000 https://kinkypoly.com/?p=2089#comment-191 […] we’re not.  All the “emotions” in the “interdependence” category of human needs from Burbol’s Hierarchy of Happiness are secondary emotions.  That means these “emotions” are our brain’s interpretation of core […]

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By: Com101 – Safe Space Culture – Kinky Poly https://kinkypoly.com/com101-burbols-hierarchy-of-happiness/#comment-100 Mon, 23 Jan 2023 20:41:17 +0000 https://kinkypoly.com/?p=2089#comment-100 […] We will often have thoughts, emotions, wants, and needs that we will feel the urge to share.  The first step in speaking up is to do all of the work we talked about in Part 1.  We do a timeout & check-in to make sure we remove blame, fabricated emotions, and fabricated needs.  We take the time to figure out the core signals on our emotional dashboard and the genuine needs behind those signals using Burbol’s Hierarchy of Happiness. […]

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By: Communication 101 – Kinky Poly https://kinkypoly.com/com101-burbols-hierarchy-of-happiness/#comment-80 Thu, 05 Jan 2023 20:58:36 +0000 https://kinkypoly.com/?p=2089#comment-80 […] Com101 – Burbol’s Hierarchy of Happiness […]

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By: Com101 – Needs & Hiding from Happiness – Kinky Poly https://kinkypoly.com/com101-burbols-hierarchy-of-happiness/#comment-63 Wed, 14 Dec 2022 17:54:27 +0000 https://kinkypoly.com/?p=2089#comment-63 […] Previous article in this series:  Com101 – Burbol’s Hierarchy of Happiness […]

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By: Com101 – Choosing To Get Our Needs Met – Kinky Poly https://kinkypoly.com/com101-burbols-hierarchy-of-happiness/#comment-61 Wed, 14 Dec 2022 03:00:47 +0000 https://kinkypoly.com/?p=2089#comment-61 […] and core needs.  A lot of emotional conversations happen when someone has one or more needs from Burbol’s hierarchy of happiness that are not being met.  It’s likely this person is already unhappy and emotional because of […]

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By: Com101 – Needs Maslow’s Model Missed – Kinky Poly https://kinkypoly.com/com101-burbols-hierarchy-of-happiness/#comment-57 Wed, 14 Dec 2022 02:58:04 +0000 https://kinkypoly.com/?p=2089#comment-57 […] Next article in this series: Com101 – Burbol’s Hierarchy of Happiness […]

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