Kinky – Kinky Poly https://kinkypoly.com Shame-Free Fantasy Fulfillment Sat, 22 Apr 2023 00:49:21 +0000 en-US hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.1.6 https://i0.wp.com/kinkypoly.com/wp-content/uploads/2020/09/cropped-KPA-logo-notext-SOURCE-572x572-in-circle-red-black-on-clear.png?fit=32%2C32&ssl=1 Kinky – Kinky Poly https://kinkypoly.com 32 32 216739995 Sex Values Survey https://kinkypoly.com/sex-values-survey/ https://kinkypoly.com/sex-values-survey/#respond Sat, 22 Apr 2023 00:47:34 +0000 https://kinkypoly.com/?p=2990

Saw this fun kinky survey and thought I’d share:
https://sexvalues.github.io/

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Sexy Party Rules – Ladies Only https://kinkypoly.com/sexy-party-rules-ladies-only/ https://kinkypoly.com/sexy-party-rules-ladies-only/#respond Thu, 30 Mar 2023 06:57:10 +0000 https://kinkypoly.com/?p=2875 Sexy Party Rules – Ladies Only Read More »

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Found these party rules randomly online.  In case you can’t read the image.  Here there are typed up:

RULES OF THE HOUSE

  1. You don’t have to do anything.  That includes watching.
  2. You don’t have to deny yourself anything, provided you can find: (a) participants, (b) equipment, (c) space, and (d) consent to do it.
  3. No dogs.  They are too big, and take up room that could be allotted to voluptuous women.  No lizards or canaries.  They are too small, and may get lost in the chip dip or crushed underfoot by dancers who have thrown Caution to the Winds.
  4. You can come with your monogamous lover, make it with her, and leave your contract unblemished.  You can also come with your vibrator, buzz off, and leave without having broken your vow of celibacy.
  5. If you want to get so high that you can’t take care of yourself, be prepared to have other people take charge of you.  That means we do things like confiscate your car keys.
  6. Bring refreshments.
  7. Come dressed as a character in one of your sexual fantasies.
  8. There is room to crash, but you may not have a pillow all to yourself.
  9. You can bring friends if you think they will enjoy the space.
  10. Women only.
  11. We will provide labels for you toys or equipment.  We will not provide labels for your head space or your behavior.
  12. In case you haven’t guessed by now, or heard all the rumors that have been flying around town, this party is intended to be a celebration of undomesticated female sexual energy.

You might also like…

Safe Play Event Agreements

A Little Guidance

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A Little Guidance https://kinkypoly.com/a-little-guidance/ https://kinkypoly.com/a-little-guidance/#comments Wed, 15 Mar 2023 23:42:39 +0000 https://kinkypoly.com/?p=2811

Cup your hand!!

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Safe Play Event Agreements https://kinkypoly.com/safe-play-event-agreements/ https://kinkypoly.com/safe-play-event-agreements/#comments Tue, 28 Feb 2023 01:29:57 +0000 https://kinkypoly.com/?p=2692 Safe Play Event Agreements Read More »

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About 5 years ago I went to a party that changed my life.  The party started with written “party agreements” and I wondered just what I had gotten myself into. 

It was my first true Safe Space Event.  It was full of people who were trusted to embody that safe space.  It’s amazing how people open up and be authentic and playful when they are truly safe.

Since then, I have made safe spaces a big part of who I am.  I create them, I teach them, and I try to embody them.  Now I’d like to share them with you.  Here are the safe space agreements I use at my events.  This is 5 years worth of fine tuning and iteration.  I hope it sets you free.

SafeKinkyPlay-v2.4-KinkyPoly.com-2023

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“2 – 2 – 1” Style Single Column Tie – How To Tie https://kinkypoly.com/2-2-1-style-single-column-tie-how-to-tie/ https://kinkypoly.com/2-2-1-style-single-column-tie-how-to-tie/#respond Thu, 18 Feb 2021 21:36:34 +0000 https://kinkypolyatheist.com/?p=1416

This is a foundation tie is more dependable than the previous version of the single column tie that I showed you. This shows you how to tie it. There is bonus footage in my members area on how to tie it without pull 30 feet of rope through.

Warning: Kink Responsibly!

  • Don’t hurt yourself.
  • Don’t hurt anyone else. Be and act safely.
  • Educate yourself! Find a local club and get a mentor.
  • If you’re NOT SURE about something, DON’T DO IT!
  • Always have clear, enthusiastic CONSENT
  • Always have and use clear SAFEWORDS
  • Always have SAFETY EQUIPMENT within arm’s reach.
    → Safety Shears, First Aid Kit, Etc.
  • Start Low; Go Slow
  • Watch Video: Why Safewords Fail

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Always have safety shears within reach. 

Remember to watch video on “which rope to choose” so you don’t create knots you can’t untie. 

15 foot of jute was used in this video. 

Fold it in half and hold the center loop, which is called the “bight” 

Wrap twice around both columns

Always check for twists and check to make sure the rope is not too tight or cutting off blood circulation before continuing. 

Check-in with your partner before continuing. “is this too tight?” 

turn bight 90 degrees, go “over 2, under 2, over 1” 

pull tight. 

do it again with the long end. turn 90 degrees, go “over 2, under 2, over 1” 

pull tight. 

work the knot together to get a nice box shape and parallels. 

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Experiments: Rope Fishnets – preview https://kinkypoly.com/experiments-rope-fishnets-preview/ https://kinkypoly.com/experiments-rope-fishnets-preview/#respond Wed, 03 Feb 2021 13:21:00 +0000 https://kinkypolyatheist.com/?p=599

Here’s a preview of a fishnet experiment.  Full video in the members area.

Warning: Kink Responsibly!

  • Don’t hurt yourself.
  • Don’t hurt anyone else. Be and act safely.
  • Educate yourself! Find a local club and get a mentor.
  • If you’re NOT SURE about something, DON’T DO IT!
  • Always have clear, enthusiastic CONSENT
  • Always have and use clear SAFEWORDS
  • Always have SAFETY EQUIPMENT within arm’s reach.
    → Safety Shears, First Aid Kit, Etc.
  • Start Low; Go Slow
  • Watch Video: Why Safewords Fail

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In the full video, I show you the behind-the-scenes of how I put new ties together. I walk through each version of this experimental fishnets stockings tie and talk about what I did and what I’m going to try differently, then I do it again. Seeing my iterations and having my explanations should aid your own experiments. Enjoy!
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Interview with LAID – A Leather Club in Las Vegas https://kinkypoly.com/interview-with-laid-a-leather-club-in-las-vegas/ https://kinkypoly.com/interview-with-laid-a-leather-club-in-las-vegas/#respond Tue, 26 Jan 2021 13:26:00 +0000 https://kinkypolyatheist.com/?p=1130
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00:30 – Intro: GW aka Sir Drgn
00:44 – Intro: Cassandra aka Sassy Cass
00:58 – Intro: Gym-Gym
01:15 – Intro: Shadow
01:34 – L.A.I.D. Stands For…
02:18 – L.A.I.D. Founders’ Patch
03:22 – Contact Info
03:44 – What is a “Leather Club”?
04:21 – What does a “Leather Lifestyle” include?
04:30 – How does LAID plan on giving back to the community?
06:20 – A Leather Club is “Home”
07:39 – What sort of stuff do you do in actual club?
08:55 – We help each other…
09:51 – “Leather is Anti-Selfish”
10:24 – Leather is a Lot of FUN. “We’re Kinky Folk.”
11:49 – How are you different from a motorcycle club?
12:33 – Fun plus Core Values
13:52 – How would someone join a leather group like LAID?
17:46 – Which club do you mesh with?
19:10 – Classes like Leather 101
21:12 – “Leather’s Different For Everybody.” What’s your core value?
21:25 – Sir Drgn’s Core Value: Service
21:53 – Shadow’s Core Value: Pleasure
22:06 – Gym-Gym’s Core Value: Honesty
22:28 – Sassy’s Core Value: “The 4 Agreements” Book
22:51 – Why would I need a “sponsor” for the club?
28:55 – Find a Club That Fits You Like Family
29:40 – LAID’s Mission Statement
31:02 – I don’t know if I’m leather. Where do I start?
31:57 – What is a “Leather Journey”?
32:19 – Shadow’s Leather Journey: Shadow’s Leather Journey: Building Communities & Creating Leather Families
33:48 – A Leather Journey is Your Personal Evolution…
34:50 – LAID is for anyone who needs a Leather Home
35:48 – Sir Drgn’s Leather Journey: Bring the Leather Community into the 21 Century
36:13 – Follow Your Passion + Live The Core Values = Your Leather Journey
37:33 – A Leatherman or Leatherwoman is…
37:49 – Sassy’s 1st Leather Journey: Responsibility & Accountability
39:18 – Sassy’s New Leather Journey: Empowering Leather Women
40:04 – Gym-Gym’s Leather Journey: Becoming the Top he thought was so hot
40:46 – “Learning Leather From The Knees Up…”
41:08 – How FINDING the Leather Community Has Evolved
42:43 – What is a “munch”?

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Poly Kinky Dating with Sir Drgn & Sassy https://kinkypoly.com/poly-kinky-dating-with-sir-drgn-sassy/ https://kinkypoly.com/poly-kinky-dating-with-sir-drgn-sassy/#respond Fri, 22 Jan 2021 13:00:00 +0000 https://kinkypolyatheist.com/?p=1103
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Interview Table Of Contents:

00:25 – Intros
01:32 – How did you two meet?
01:36 – What’s a “munch”?
02:30 – First Playdate & Safety Protocol
04:31 – A Little Bit About DS Contracts
06:25 – From DS Play To Romance
08:13 – When did you discuss “poly”?
10:28 – Out As Poly with Mom & Dad
11:25 – Hiding being poly, pros and cons
12:58 – Poly? –it’s just a phase
14:07 – Poly leading to deeper same-sex connections
14:42 – Why other relationships are encouraged…
15:11 – Losing yourself in a relationship by sacrificing yourself

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Rope How To – Double Column Tie https://kinkypoly.com/rope-how-to-double-column-tie/ https://kinkypoly.com/rope-how-to-double-column-tie/#respond Mon, 21 Dec 2020 14:33:00 +0000 https://kinkypolyatheist.com/?p=1089
This is a foundation tie. Many harnesses will start this tie.

Warning: Kink Responsibly!

  • Don’t hurt yourself.
  • Don’t hurt anyone else. Be and act safely.
  • Educate yourself! Find a local club and get a mentor.
  • If you’re NOT SURE about something, DON’T DO IT!
  • Always have clear, enthusiastic CONSENT
  • Always have and use clear SAFEWORDS
  • Always have SAFETY EQUIPMENT within arm’s reach.
    → Safety Shears, First Aid Kit, Etc.
  • Start Low; Go Slow
  • Watch Video: Why Safewords Fail

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Always have safety shears within reach.

Remember to watch video on “which rope to choose” so you don’t create knots you can’t untie.

15 foot of jute was used in this video.
Fold it in half and hold the center loop, which is called the “bight”
Wrap twice around both columns.

Always check for twists and check to make sure the rope is not too tight or cutting off blood circulation before continuing.

Check-in with your partner before continuing. “is this too tight?”

Cross/Twist bight and working end against each other at 90 degrees.
Bight goes “under everything” and then “over everything”

Check in with partner for tightness as this cinches down.

Always check for twists and check to make sure the rope is not too tight or cutting off blood circulation before continuing.

Check-in with your partner before continuing. “is this too tight?”

Tie like the start of tying your shoes.
Tie a second knot.
Pull tight.
Tail on bight should be a couple inches or more.
Untie by pulling the knot and breaking the knot to pull the bight back through.

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Rope How To – Single Column Tie https://kinkypoly.com/rope-how-to-single-column-tie/ https://kinkypoly.com/rope-how-to-single-column-tie/#respond Mon, 21 Dec 2020 13:19:00 +0000 https://kinkypolyatheist.com/?p=1075
This is a foundation tie. Many harnesses will start this tie.

Warning: Kink Responsibly!

  • Don’t hurt yourself.
  • Don’t hurt anyone else. Be and act safely.
  • Educate yourself! Find a local club and get a mentor.
  • If you’re NOT SURE about something, DON’T DO IT!
  • Always have clear, enthusiastic CONSENT
  • Always have and use clear SAFEWORDS
  • Always have SAFETY EQUIPMENT within arm’s reach.
    → Safety Shears, First Aid Kit, Etc.
  • Start Low; Go Slow
  • Watch Video: Why Safewords Fail

How to Support This Channel

How to Support This Channel (for FREE)

Links & Mentions

This Video's Details

Always have safety shears within reach.
Remember to watch video on “which rope to choose” so you don’t create knots you can’t untie.

15 foot of jute was used in this video.
Fold it in half and hold the center loop, which is called the “bight”
Wrap twice around columns.
Always check for twists and check to make sure the rope is not too tight or cutting off blood circulation before continuing.
Check-in with your partner before continuing. “is this too tight?”
Cross/Twist bight and working end against each other at 90 degrees.
Bight goes “over everything” and then “under everything”
Check in with partner for tightness as this sinches down.
Always check for twists and check to make sure the rope is not too tight or cutting off blood circulation before continuing.
Check-in with your partner before continuing. “is this too tight?”
Fold working end in to great a loop with working end running between the bight and loop.
Pass bight through loop.
Pull tight.
Tail on bight should be a couple inches or more.
Untie by pulling the knot and breaking the knot to pull the bight back through.

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